| Location | Dagenham |
| Age | 0 |
| Date of Birth | 2/1990 |
| Date of Death | 2/1990 |
| Visitors | 1,148 since 22/06/2007 |
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This page is especially for you my baby,and, if i had been 3 more days pregnant,you would have been classed as legally viable, and would have been named Danielle, and had a birth and death certificate and a gravestone for us to visit you,and talk to you, and beleive me, if i knew then what i know now, i would have pushed so hard for that...your uncle Joe's ex girlfriend was with me when you were born, and she swears she saw you breath...then the doctors said you were dead, and were born dead, so i could never have the certificates i needed and wanted to know that i brought you into this world, and you did actually have life...even just for a minute...I kept asking, "what if i am 24 weeks pregnant? and not 23 weeks and 4 days?? No, i was told under 24 weeks is not legaly viable, so you, my baby, didnt have the funeral i wanted for you, was basically told, in so many words, that if i was 24 weeks or over, it was a whole lot different, like you would have been more important then?? Well babes, you are important, and will always be...I dont know what happened to you, i left it all in the capable hands of the hospital staff..i was given a picture of you, and i wont put it on here, as it is SO personal to me, as you had already entered spirit world when this picture was taken, but you know i've got it, and you know that your younger brother Jamie,16, and your litle sister Adele,14, have both seen your picture, and they think that you are so beautiful... Discovering this site is probably the best thing to have happened to me for a long time, because, even though your picture is not on here, i can still feel you, and as we've got no grave to visit, nowhere to go and remember you, i really felt like i had failed you, but to be honest, since adding you here babe, i really feel like it's my little special place, where i can think of you, hear the song that always reminds me of you, and i can be with you. I was 18 when i gave birth to you on the 11th Feb 1990 at 3.40pm weighing 1lb 2oz at newham General Hospital....There were a lot of problems between me and your dad days before you were born, and i hope you never remember them...i tried so hard to not give birth to you at that time....was hoping you would wait just a few more weeks if not months....Babes, this is SO comforting to me now...i feel i really have my little shrine for you.....this is the most soild and secure have felt thinking about you, because this is your's, this is your page baby....One thing that has always worried me....will you still be a little baby when i join you?? Or grown up?? Will i know you the minute i see you??? When it's my time, please be there to meet me my baby....I wanna see you so much....whether your a big girl, or still a baby, i want to hold you in my arms.....I bet your with grandad.....grandad Mick.....he will be looking after you, he went to that wonderful place called heaven on 28th october 1992...i hope your together, and with my nan's and grandad.....I love you darling...my biggest regret is not holding you, i was confused and didn't know what i wanted at the time, but you know in your heart that i love you, and i've always taken comfort in your photo, but, this page has made me feel 100 times better, finally, a place for me to call My baby Danielle's....hope ur happy and smiling babe....I love you.... xxx...MuM...xxx
Hey baby girl.. I hope you and Mummy are having loads of fun and cuddles.. Give her a massive kiss from me and tell her I miss her so so so much!! xxx
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Hope that you and Mummy are having loads of cuddles.. She missed you so much and knowing that one day she would be with you and Grandad again made her journey more easier xxxxxxx
I remember how hard it was for your Mummy to cope when you were taken from this world and how devastated she was that you weren't considered as important as you would have been a few days later. You were so important to Mummy from the day she found out she was expecting you. I've seen the picture and you truly are a beautiful little flower.
Rest now darling, Mummy is there with you now, she has waited a very long time to hold you, so please take care of her.
Help her keep your brother and sister safe. xxx
RIP sweet baby
babes you were just 23 weeks but so important to those who loved you. My baby was 13 weeks and she/he is a very much important person. It's just a shame it seems little babies are not "recognised" till they hit 24 weeks, even though some who come at 23 weeks do make it.
your mother loved you for the 23 weeks 4 days you lived inside her but more importantly she still loves you now, she always will love you because a mother love is forever..
RIP Danielle, play nice with the baby angels. You did matter , you were important , all you little babies matter.
RIP sweetie x
from little baby's mam xxxxxxxxx
I'M SENDING A DOVE TO
HEAVEN WITH A PARCEL ON ITS
WINGS BE CAREFUL WHEN
YOU OPEN IT,ITS FULL OF
BEAUTIFUL THINGS.
INSIDE ARE A MILLION KISSES
WRAPPED UP IN A MILLION
HUGS TO SAY HOW MUCH
YOUR FAMILY MISS YOU
AND SEND YOU THEIR LOVE.
^i^ Hello babes, u ok? Hope so... I always wondered babe, if i were gonna see u as a baby, or grown up, when we meet again, and i've spoke to someone, and u would have seen who, and he told me, ur gonna be all grown up! So, wen i see u, i will see u as the beautiful girl u woulda been here, with us, grown up, from the beautiful baby i gave birth to... I'm doin really well health wise, i know u'd love me to be there with u babes, and i'd love to see u again, but i think u and grandad have been watchin over me, cos i'm doin well 4 now, but as u know, i will be joinin u a lot sooner than i ever wished or planned, wanted my life here with Jay & Del, then our eternity with u, with my 3 kids that i gave birth to, but life has a way suprising u, and havin a twist, not always for the good, so wen i'm up there with u, we have to guide ur brother & sister together ok? Gonna need ur help!! Love u loads babe, it's not my time just yet as u know, someone somewhere is giving me more time here, with ur brother, sister & family, but babe will will be together one day, and thats a promise.. I love u.. Mum ...^i^ xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
^i^ R.I.P SIS ^i^
Alryt sis hope ure doing alrite... Look after Tommy for me coz i know if u was ere you would known him aswell. Love you lots babe
x x x Adele x x x
so sorry
When my son samuel was born still born it was the hardest thing giving birth to a baby you know that you will never get to see grow up and all those precious movements and tiny kicks stay in your mind see emotions tell you that your right and you are a baby is a baby, your baby has the right to have a funeral she lived inside of you and you had all those motherly feelings just like me my sam was 38wks i thought i was in labour but it was my body telling me something was wrong sam was born with the umbilical cord wrapped around the full lenghth of his body i had a funeral for him and i think you need that for that is the only way you can say you have done something right because if your anything like me you would of blamed yourself i,m so sorry for your loss i hope that one day you will hold your baby and then it will be forever sending you love take care xxxxxx
^i^ My Baby was 18 !!! ^i^
^i^ Hello babes, I'm SO sorry I didn't send you a message on your birthday, 11th Feb, you would have been 18 !!! We would have thrown you a massive party! I was thinking of you, as I am everyday, and especially today, valentines day because I love you soo much... Jamie has started work ! And had his 1st driving lesson on his 17th birthday 1st Feb... hope you keep an eye on him for me! Love you lots, Mummy, Jay & Del.. x x x x x ^i^
Sorry for your loss
Ive just read your story and wanted to say how sorry I am. I m sure when you meet Danielle she will be a beautiful grown up girl but still your baby. Im glad you have found comfort on this site where it makes you feel closer to Danielle.
Take care of you and your family
Sue
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